A STRANGER TO A BROTHER
Umm.... Friendship, life is incomplete without a *true* friend in life. But who is a true friend? Not everyone is a true friend. In simple words true friends are every rare. We start making friends when we step into our society or school or any other place. In our childhood we make lots of friends and think that he/she is my bestie. But that's not the case...Best friend is that one with whome we meet and he/she is able to stay with us till the end and participates in each and every situation of our life. Many friends we get during our life most of them are selfish or just want to be friends for timepass and we regret later when there face is revealed...and the saddest part is that when the friendship is no more between the two and he/she blames you for whatever happened even if you are the purest soul and put your best towards that bond. I am not saying that all of them are fake but many are...I love all my friend's that I have right now ( no formalities). Anyways, moving on , a true friendship is not something that we have to maintain but it is something that is made when we understand each other and able to help each other in every situation for lifetime. I felt this when I got such a friend. We became friends in school and had never seen each other before. At beginning I didn't realise that he is that friend that I want in my life. We had a group of four friends and he was also there in that group. Initially we did not used to talk much just talked in school or in the group that's it. Later there was a phase in my life when I was totally depressed and filled with a lot of negativity. During that phase I did not talked to anyone. But I don't know how I started talking to him during that period. Really he helped me alot ro recover from that feeling and lowering my pressure. If he would have not been there I don't know what would have happened to me. He entered into my life like a guide and obviously like a friend. When I was alright we talked regularly and knew everything about each other. Due to that phase I was unable to concentrate on my studies as well he helped me alot in that too.... Whenever we were in problem or had joy we always shared with each other and became a part of it. Whenever we were angry of anything that also we shared and in flow many times abused each other during conversation...but if you will not abuse your best friend friend then nobody would be there to listen those words so patiently and just laughing by listening those words. Whenever he abused me or I abused him we just smile or laughs loudly and that's what a best friend does. Many a times I experienced that I was able to tolerate anything someone said to me but if someone says about him I got very angry. In each and every situation he was there to help me at any time. I am a night person and mostly I got negative thoughts at that time only even at that time he was there. I had 2 problems in my life he left his studies and everything and helped me to sort out that too. He really filled the blank space of *BROTHER* in my life. For me he is not my friend he is my brother and I will always be there for him in every situation. He made my birthday special by planning a night stay and watching web series. I did not have even 1% interest in movies and all but with him I can watch any movie without getting bored , we feel horror movie comedy when we watch it together. He made my birthday the best and most special and I had never enjoyed a birthday like that before. Then we started going for party or stays whenever there was a pressure due to studies. Both of us are very selfless for each other, with him I can fight any problem in my life. I am really in tears while writing this and cannot explain about him with these few words. In simple words I had never got one like him and will never get one. LOVE U *BHAI*
WRITTEN BY : Shourya Sugla
Great work
ReplyDeleteWhat about that friendship that starts with a fight? Would u like to tell something about it. Although great blog. Keep it up.
ReplyDeleteIf you start a friendship after a fight then also absolutely fine because you have already experienced hoe to convert each other's anger into friendship and if problem arises in future it can be solved much easily 🤝🏻
DeleteThnx for appreciation♥️
Btw can I know your name??
Great work Shourya! Keep writing!
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