LUST OR LOVE?

Really a complicated thing. Because lust can be felt without love. But lust will never be so beautiful and satisfying when yours is satisfied by the one who genuinely loves you. It is even better if you get pleasure from the one who loves you. Because then it is real, perfect and pure. But lust is not just the sexual part. There are so many facets of lust.

The need to be hugged, to feel the other without sexual intent. To be so close to the other that no one can separate you. That not even a piece of paper fits between you. Just to feel the other and to know that nothing can happen to you, nothing can separate you. You are the only thing that matters in this moment. That is the desire for physical closeness.

Then it is the desire not only to feel that person and to know that he is there, but also to feel it. To feel how the person who sincerely loves you pays homage to your body. With every touch of his hands, his lips, his tongue ... So that you have the feeling you are the most beautiful there is in the world. You are perfect in your imperfection as you are. He / she desires you, wants to explore and appreciate every inch. Again, only you two count.

Then the most exciting thing at the beginning is to just talk about what you want, what you can imagine, to open up to that person mentally and emotionally. That is the most beautiful and most important thing of all. Talk about your needs, what is frightening or worrying you.

Don't force anything. All as it should come. Then nothing can actually go wrong. Enjoy every first intimate touch, the first kiss, the first intense look in the eye, everything. Take it easy without compulsion. Take one step at a time. Take your time and explore each other before indulging in sexual pleasure. Listen to your heart. Everything comes at the right time. Believe me. It is not too late for anything. Go according to your feelings and not the opinion of others.

Written by Alina