THE SEXUAL HARASSMENT

Whosoever girl/boy they both get harassed by someone not only girls, boys too and we don’t tell someone easily because we don’t know how they are going to react. I have seen persons who mostly say that if I am going to tell them they are not going to allow me for the college and they will not give me the phone. One of my best friends (girl) mother’s friend’s son, who tutored her and she used to call him bhaiya (brother) and of course no one can except things from those whom you know better and your parents also know them and what he did was he WhatsApp her and asks the question in which she felt uncomfortable and he asks thing about SEX and what’s your opinion about oral sex (definitely it’s far beyond the limit). The one whom you call BHAIYA asks such type of questions from you makes you feel frightened and when I ask her to tell her parents at least tell your mom about this and she said she is not going to understand and she will take my phone away and will ask several questions from me that why you were replying him and what’s the fault of my friend that she replied hello to someone whom she thinks she knew? But why they don’t understand if from hello you will get the intention what the person wants from you so we will not be going to reply to him we are not that much stupid.

That’s the reason why they don’t tell their parents about what happened to them or someone whom they trust because some of them don’t respond in such a way, asking for changing the route, giving the phone away, and stopping the child from going outside will not change the personality and the mindset of those. You will stop them from going outside what if someone is harassing them who lives in the same house?

When I was going for my tuition classes and the old man around 50-60 walking on the opposite side of the road and he whistles and when I looked around, he said “come dear, we will have fun and I will pay you for that” and my reaction was I ran away from there, why I didn’t kick him in his ass? That’s not the reaction at least I should have slapped him but what happened that time?

Many girls’ boys harassed by someone in their lives and what they just do is keep their mouth shut. Don’t keep quiet if that person is teasing you maybe he is doing to someone else too. So, be strong and tell them about to someone whom you trust blindly and who can take actions against them and it’s a request to the parents it’s not the fault of them who is being accused by someone, support your daughter, son, wife whoever getting harassed and take actions against them and don’t stop your child from going outside and teach them to be open with you so, many problems like this can solve easily.

Hope from this many of us can tell who is facing these kinds of problems. I know maybe this is not the big issue like the people facing around but maybe you can tell things to someone and take the actions against them and you can stop them from doing this.

 Written by- Swati