WHO DECIDES ON "BEAUTY"?

Who decides on "beauty"? What do we mean by "being beautiful", "being attractive" or "conforming to the norm"?

The ideal image of women is to have the body size 90x60x90, to be super thin, to have long legs, long hair, not to have a gram of fat too much on the body, otherwise one would have lost control of one's life, cook, wash and clean to have no wrinkles, no scar that could disfigure because it "doesn't look nice", great big but not too big breasts, a firm buttocks and and and ...

And a man is "only" attractive when he is trained through, has a sixpack, when he is at least 1.85 cm tall, with little body hair, is the biggest asshole in the world, shows no feelings, is always strong and the woman shows where to go?

But that's not real life. Nobody is perfect. Every detail, every difference, every supposed mark makes us an individual. Makes us unique!

I love it when men "are not the norm" when they are "different". I like it when men can show feelings, allow feelings, when they understand me and take me with every mark i have.

Because if both are imperfect, it's a sign that something is missing. That you are not yet perfect because you have to find your significant other first. The partner for life. Only together are you perfect.

So stop worrying about the ideal. You are perfect as you are. With all supposed mistakes. The right person can deal with you because he/ she understands you and loves you for who you are! Because that is real love!

That the partner loves the most that you don't like about yourself. That he loves every piece of you and always shows it to you.

P.S. And a person can be beautiful on the outside, but the inner values ​​are reflected in the person. And that can turn an attractive person into an ugly person.

Please believe in you and be proud of you. Because you are perfect just the way you are!

Written by Alina